Pro 31:11 The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.

Pro 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. Pro 31:12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.  



Do our husbands trust in us? This goes far beyond just being physically faithfull to our husbands. It is in everything. Does he trust that we will respect him and his role as leader, regardless of how 'good' a leader he is. God demands his role be respected. 
Eph 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see husband. that she reverence her

It is more important for us to live a life worthy of honor and trust before our husbands. Whether he is living up to his role before God of loving you as Christ loved the church,  he will answer to God, as we will for what we do too.

Dear precious daughter of the King, we can not love and respect our husbands, to serve him selflessly and "do him good and not evil all the days of her life."  without the supernatural power of the holy spirit. We need to be in the word, on our knees before the Father, and lean on Him for everything



Php 4:6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. Php 4:7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Php 4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.